Grief comes in waves when you least expect it. A song on the radio, an anniversary or holiday, even smells can trigger heartache so big it takes your breath away. In the early days after a loss, we may be blessed with support and condolences from family or friends. At some point, though, we are faced with the huge hole that the loss has left in our lives.
Feelings of disbelief, confusion, anger, anxiety, irritability and guilt are common.
Some common causes of grief include:
- Unexpected loss (family, friend, pet)
- Retirement
- Relocation
- Relationship change, breakup or divorce
- Change in health, income
- Child leaving home


